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читать дальшеEvery person dreams about love, dates, wedding and successful marriage and nobody wants to imagine himself or herself in loneliness, without a lover or friend sitting next to him or her. But I’d like to say that every cloud has a silver lining.
When we fall in love or get merry, we totally forget about the world around. Our lover takes all our thoughts and all our time. We can’t study, work or enjoy our holiday, because of his or her absence. We must change our interests and leisure on purpose to please our partner. We watch hockey instead of figure skating or go shopping when we prefer to lie on a sofa with a newspaper. Do you really like to change your furniture or clothes, because your boyfriend likes you wearing dresses or your girlfriend is fond of a pink chair, but not a black one? You have to come to compromise when you have a beloved person.
When you are lonely you are not afraid to lose your partner and you don’t need to search for new methods to save your relations. You can enjoy your life as you wish and you don’t need to report when you come home late. You have time for self-development, you can go to swimming or to do yoga, read books or practice Eastern dances and nobody will be jealous of.
Also you can work harder and make a good career, to be a successful boss or a famous journalist.
If you are a religious person and you try to be close to God then your loneliness also can be beneficial, because it is really difficult to explain your aim, your function and views to somebody else. Your can devote all your time to God and you can be really righteous in your actions and ideas.
Scientists often are lonely people too, because they have the only interest in a new discovery or in a successful experiment, they can work day and night without rest and other people can be a pain and they even can irritate scientists.
There is an idea that creative people need a person who will be a muse for them in order to create their masterpieces of music, pictures or sculptures, but actually some of them need just loneliness, piece and quit, because nature, music or literature can be in the role of muse.
Thus even if love is pretty as a picture, remember that all that glisters is not gold and know that loneliness also can be beneficial to some extent.